What’s the point in hiring a doula?

If you’re pregnant and wondering, “Do I really need a doula?”—you’re not alone. Maybe you’ve already got a supportive partner, a kind midwife, or you’re planning a hospital birth with skilled medical staff. So what’s the point of bringing someone else into the room?

Here’s the truth: a doula doesn’t replace anyone. A doula enhances everyone.

A Doula is there just for YOU!

Unlike midwives or doctors, who often juggle several patients or focus primarily on clinical care, a doula is there for you—your emotional well-being, your comfort, your birth preferences. Their only job is to support you (and your partner) every step of the way, from those early twinges to holding your baby for the first time.

Whether you’re birthing in a hospital, birth centre, or at home, a doula becomes your constant. They don’t switch shifts, they don’t rush between rooms, and they don’t leave when the paperwork is done. They’re by your side—calm, steady, and fully focused on your needs.

You deserve to feel calm, heard, and empowered

Birth can feel unpredictable. But what if you had someone by your side who knew birth—someone who could quietly remind you to breathe, suggest a position that might ease your backache, or advocate for your wishes when you’re too deep in the moment to speak up?

A doula helps protect your birth space—not just physically, but emotionally. They help translate medical jargon when you’re feeling overwhelmed. They remind the room that you’re not “just another patient,” but a whole person with preferences, feelings, and strength beyond measure.

And if things don’t go exactly to plan? They hold your hand through it. They help you reframe, regroup, and move forward with compassion and care.

They support your partner too!

One of the biggest misconceptions is that hiring a doula sidelines your partner. In reality, doulas make your partner shine. They help your partner feel more confident, more informed, and more included.

Imagine your partner being able to take a break, eat something, or even go to the loo, knowing you’re still fully supported. Or picture them calmly massaging your shoulders, guided by a doula who knows exactly what techniques can help in that stage of labour. Doulas take the pressure off your partner so they can be present and connected in the moment, rather than worried or unsure.

Birth is a BIG DEAL— you’re allowed support

You don’t have to do this alone. You’re not meant to just “get through” birth—you’re meant to experience it. To move through it feeling respected, safe, informed, and supported. And that’s where a doula comes in.

Whether it’s your first baby or your fourth, whether you’re planning a water birth or a scheduled caesarean, whether you feel excited or completely unsure—there’s a doula out there ready to walk beside you.

So… What’s the point of hiring a Doula?

The point is you.

Your peace of mind.

Your power.

Your voice.

Your right to feel held, seen, and respected during one of life’s most profound experiences.

If you’re curious about what it would be like to have a doula by your side, reach out. Ask questions. Have a chat. Book a FREE consultation to see if we vibe. This isn’t just a luxury—it’s a beautiful act of self-care and preparation for your birth.

You deserve support that feels like home.

Pooja xo